If you ask the average woman what a man thinks is the perfect girlfriend the answer will be very different than what men really want.   Women believe we are hung up on just physical beauty and possible a physical relationship.  Following is a few of the traits men most commonly list as being important to them.  Do they match your list?

Trait 1 – Laughter is the Real Way to a Man’s Heart

Many of us guys are very intense at work and play.  We go to work and are focused, driven, and competitive.  We participate in sports to win.  When a woman can make us laugh, especially at ourselves, she wins a special place in our hearts.  Her quips, jokes, and suggestive innuendo can have us acting like little boys again.  The pressure is off and the fun begins.

Trait 2 – Accepting Our Friendships with Our Buddies

Too often women want to completely replace our friendships with our buddies and take over our lives.  The perfect girlfriend will insist on balance.  She knows there must be guys’ nights, too.  She might even help to instigate a guys’ night by helping you prepare for a poker night, suggesting you host a NFL game day party, or other guys’ event.  Then when the time comes around she gets out of the way and allows the craziness to happen.

Trait 3 – Complimenting Our Strengths and Accepting Our Faults

Have you ever dated a woman who was constantly suggesting changes in your appearance, behavior, career, or other habits?  It is miserable.  When you date a woman who gives your small compliments about your strengths you strive to be even more.  She never has to mention your faults, because you probably already know every one of them.  She inspires you to strive to be more by being supportive, loving, and your friend, not by telling you to change.

Trait 4 – Show Us Your Affection

It is sometimes the smallest things which make the biggest difference.   Men enjoy when women subtly show us their affection in private and in public.  It can be the simplest things.  A woman gently holding her man’s arm as they walk through the mall is powerful show of her affection.  Gentle kisses in public to say thank you, or I love you, has a big impact on a man’s ego and confidence.  When a woman makes it clear she cares for a man he will take on the world for her.

Trait 5 – Being Smart and Ambitious is Sexy

Whoever came up with the idea men like dumb women was completely wrong.  What men really want is a woman who can talk to him about their common interests intelligently.  He likes a woman who is ambitious about her own success and excited about his success.

The perfect girl is never found by just looking at physical traits.  You want a woman who makes you feel great about being a man.  Remember as you meet women in your community or use online dating sites to think about these important traits, not just about her pretty smile.

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Why do you keep putting off trying an online dating service?  Maybe you already tried and you did not have much luck.  Either way there are a few things you should know about online dating sites to help you meet the perfect girlfriend.

Stop Trying Tricks and Start Having Success

The first thing most people do when they first try a dating site is to embellish the truth.  They go from being 5’10” tall to being 6’ tall.  They lose 20 digital pounds.  They grab a picture from 5 years ago that looks better than their current appearance.  Their career suddenly sounds much more interesting and pays $10,000 more per year.  All of those little factors might help you get a few more women to respond to your listing, but then what?

One of the biggest secrets to online dating and meeting the perfect girlfriend has to do with honesty.  Think carefully about this.  If you embellish the truth and you begin an online relationship through chatting and maybe even phone calls, what is going to happen when you meet in person and she discovers you are not really what she expected?  What if the reverse situation happened to you?

Being Loved for Being You

What you really want in the perfect girlfriend is someone who like you for exactly who you are.  Sure, use a flattering picture, but make sure it is a recent one.  If you do not like any you have right now go get a haircut, put on some nice clothes, and have someone snap some new pictures.

You will quickly discover there are women who are interested in the real you, just as you are.  The amazing thing is these will be the women who in the end will impress you’re the most, too.  If they are contacting you because they see you listed fishing, bowling, and eating Italian food, then it probably means they enjoy those activities, too.  The perfect girlfriend is going to share many of your interests and expand your life instead of bringing your favorite activities to a halt.

You should do the same thing as you search for women.  Use your best judgment and try to determine which listings look real and honest.  Focus on who the woman is and her interests just as much as you pay attention to her picture.  The woman who looks nice, has a great sense of humor, and shares your interests is going to be closer to the perfect girlfriend than the girl who looks amazing but is nothing like you.

Getting Active Online to Have Success

How many people have you heard comment that online dating does not work?  What they really mean is they did not really try online dating services seriously.  They did not take the time to make lots of contacts.  They did not spend time chatting in the available chat rooms.  They sat back and waited for someone to contact them.  If you want to meet the perfect girlfriend it is very possible online.  You just need to be honest, choose what you really want, and then get busy meeting people.

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Are you scratching your head trying to figure out what to buy for her?  It is not difficult to choose the perfect gift for girlfriends if you take a little time for observation and listen closely.  Let us explore a few idea to help you choose that perfect gift.

Becoming a Detective to Find the Perfect Gift

The starting point to choosing the perfect gifts for girlfriends is to uncover some important things.  You will need to be a detective and start writing a few things down.

One of the first things you must do is discover her clothing sizes.  Whenever you get a chance take a look at the labels on a blouse, pair of pants, and other clothing items.  This will allow you to buy clothing with confidence you are getting the right size.  The next item in your detective work is to start paying attention and asking questions.  Here are a few things you should try to learn quickly:

• What is the perfume she wears which drives you crazy? 
• What type of music and which bands does she enjoy?
• Do you know her favorite colors of clothes?  (Don’t just ask, take time to observe.)
• What is her favorite type of food?
• What kinds of movies does she like?

Using the answers to these questions can help you buy the perfect gifts while using a little originality at the same time.  Here are a few ideas:

• Buy tickets to a concert for her favorite band.
• Cook her favorite food for her. 
• Take her to a play which is presenting a play based on her favorite genre of movies.
• Buy her a nice blouse of her favorite color and include a gift card to take her shopping for a matching pair of pants.
• Present her with a new bottle of her favorite perfume and tell her to wear it for a weekend getaway.

The perfect gift for your girlfriend does not need to be expensive, it needs to be thoughtful.  When she sees you have taken the time to really understand what she likes and are making an effort to please her she will be highly impressed.  The average guy buys gifts without much thought.

Sticking to the Classics

When you are stuck without any new ideas for gifts you can always fall back on the classics.  Almost every woman enjoys receiving these classic gifts:

• Flowers (Especially roses.)
• Jewelry
• Candles

A few other ideas which might pleasantly surprise her take a completely different path.  You can pamper her with luxury by giving one of these gifts:

• Massage
• Manicure
• Spa Treatment

The bottom line of buying the perfect gift for girlfriends always comes back to you learning about her.  Start listening closely to what she really likes and right things down when you can.  Then when you want to buy her a gift you will know the perfect answer instantly.  You will be delighted with the way her face lights up with your thoughtfulness and attention to detail at your perfect gift.

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It would be so much easier if the perfect girls started paying attention to you.  Instead of trying to find them you, they would be coming to you.  With the following tips to attract girls you will have women paying attention to you like never before.

Tip 1 – Being Well Groomed

Looking great does not mean you have to be the most handsome man on the block.  If you take a little extra time with staying well-groomed, dressing nice and smelling great women will notice.  This should include wearing nice smelling cologne.  You should plan on getting regular haircuts, shaving, and keeping your finger nails clean and trimmed.

Bonus Tip:  Do not choose cologne which smells good to you.  Try a few different ones and ask the women around you which one they like best.  What smells great to a man may be completely different than what women like.

Tip 2 – Be Confident

Those perfect girls you want to attract like confident men.  This is one topic which worries many men.  You need to be confident around the women you meet.  You might complain it is impossible.  If you are nervous around beautiful women there is only one remedy.  You must spend more time around beautiful women.  You will discover as you spend time around the women you consider beautiful you begin to relax.  With a little practice you will become confident, poised, and relaxed.

Tip 3 – Listen More, Talk Wisely

You may have heard the advice to listen more talk less before, but that is not exactly right.  You need to listen more and then respond in a confident, informed, and understanding way.  Listen more is not about the number of words you hear, but is the quality of your listening.  Listen as if you are mesmerized when a woman talks to you.  Capture every word she says as if she is the only person in the room.  Then you can respond with greater confidence, empathy, and it will help lead you into Tip 4.

Tip 4 – Be Funny

Women love to laugh.  All of our lives are filled with stress and challenges and the best relief is a little laughter.  Do not try to become an amazing comedian, but work on improving your own natural humor.  It does not matter if you have a dry wit, slap-stick comedy, or are completely off-the-wall.  What does matter is understanding the right moments to be funny, and to never use humor to embarrass.

Tip 5 – Show Your Caring Side

The perfect girls surrounding you are not looking for the most beautiful man.  They are looking for guys who are caring, would make a great partner, and possibly a good father.  Do little things to let the women around you know you care.  This can be as simple as a “Thank You”, getting them a cup of coffee, or remembering a special day in their life.

These five simple tips will take you from constantly trying to find women into being the guy they all enjoy being around.  You will start to notice the women around you paying more attention.  You will get little hints.  Some of the married women may even start suggesting friends.  It all starts with highlighting your great attributes.

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Grab your five best buddies and sit down for a chat.  Ask each of them “What is a perfect girl?”  You are going to discover there are five very different opinions.  Someone will probably talk about hair color.  Another guy will talk about a woman legs or other physical features.  You might have one friend talk about a woman’s eyes.  The one who states it is all about personality will probably be teased the rest of the night.  What does make up the perfect girl?

Discovering Your Perfect Girl

It is time for you to have some fun and fantasize.  Grab a piece of paper and a pencil.  You can start thinking back through your years in school.  Picture women you have met at work, church, the grocery store, or seen walking down the street.  Consider the female characters in televisions shows and movies that caught your attention.  Close your eyes and allow your imagination to run wild for a little while.

Once you open your eyes quickly start writing down things which came to mind.  What hair color was most important?  What physical appearances do you like the most?  Were there any activities which stood out as important?  What personality traits catch your attention?

You might think this is all a waste of time, but you will see in a minute why it is not.

Using Your Dreams to Find the Perfect Girl

Now you get to start having the real fun of this little exercise.  Choose a couple of the biggest online dating sites and go sign up for a free account.  Do not worry about filling out a complete profile yet, this is about discovering what makes the perfect girl for you.

Find the option on their site for doing an advanced search and start entering as many of your important features as it allows. Do not be shy, try to use them all.  Leave it open to explore the entire country, or even worldwide if you wish.

This will give you a list of women who closely match your ideas of a perfect girl.  You need to start going through some of the profiles looking at pictures, reading descriptions, and learning more about these women to help you discover other important traits.  Write down any additional thoughts you come up with about the perfect girl.

Meeting the Perfect Girl Becomes Easy When You Know What You Want

The reason for gathering all of this information is very simple.  Meeting the perfect girl is much easier if you know what you are looking for.  Now you can search an online dating site to find exactly the kinds of women you want to meet.  You can begin to focus on a smaller number of women and find one who is a great match for you.

This information is just as important in your everyday life.  You can start looking around your community at women who closely resemble your ideal.  Make a point of learning more about them.  When you begin to focus on your desires instead of what everyone else expects you will meet the perfect girl fast.

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Do you want to be the perfect girlfriend for him?  There are a few important dos and don’ts which can help you in making him feel you are the perfect woman for him.  Here are some of the items guys mention most often.

Compliments and Praise

Do give him compliments and praise when he looks especially nice, does something special, or achieves an important goal.  He will enjoy hearing how proud of him you are.

Don’t incessantly compliment him for every little thing.  It will quickly become annoying and he will not believe you are sincere.

Surprises and Gifts

Do give your boyfriend special little gifts like tickets to a ball game, a gift certificate to his favorite sports bar, or even a bag full of homemade cookies.

Don’t give him clothing, shoes, or other items which makes him feel like you are trying to upgrade his image.  You will accomplish more in helping him to dress better by simply complimenting him sincerely when you think he looks great, and keeping your mouth shut when he does not.

Days with the Guys

Do give you him the gift of spending time with his friends.  Help him plan times to have his friends over or to go out with his buddies.  If they are coming over to your place you should make yourself scarce but helpful.

Don’t try to become one of the guys or let him end his friendships.  You want him to stay the same great guy you met and part of that is being with his friends.

Public Displays of Affection

Do include public displays of affection with your boyfriend, but do it subtly.  A quick kiss on the cheek, holding his arm, and light touches are all very welcomed displays of affection and will put a smile on his face.

Do not smother him with kisses or glue yourself to his side.  He might enjoy you overwhelming display of affection for a date or two, but then you will see him pulling away.

Humor in Romance

Do include plenty of humor in your romance.  Make sure you can laugh at your own mistakes and faults.  Be lighthearted and quick to laugh with him.  Sending funny greeting cards to the office is enjoyed and appreciated.

Don’t make jokes about his appearance, intellect, sexual ability, or body.  While he may laugh at your joke inside the feeling may be very different.  Never make jokes about his family members, even if he does.

Escaping Together for a Weekend

Do plan times to get away together for weekends, but keep in mind what you both enjoy doing.  A weekend getaway to watch a college football game, camping, or hiking might be perfect.

Don’t plan a quiet weekend for two.  It may sound wonderful and romantic to you, but let him make those kinds of plans.  To most men those weekends sound painfully boring.

By keeping in mind what your boyfriend is really interested in you can always come up with great ideas.  Use this list of dos and don’ts to help you stay on the right track to know how to be the perfect girlfriend.

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